The Sacrament of Reconciliation

Tim DeRosa • Mar 24, 2023

Peace be with you!

This Wednesday night and next Wednesday night at 6:30 the parish we will have a wonderful opportunity to receive God's mercy in the Sacrament of Reconciliation. Often called Penance, Reconciliation, or Confession, the Sacrament is a unique encounter with the Triune God that completely cleanses the soul of the Penitent.

At the moment of absolution, the priest says these words: "God the Father of mercies, through the Death and Resurrection of His Son, has reconciled the world to Himself and poured out the Holy Spirit for the forgiveness of sins." All Three persons of the Trinity act in communion with one another. The Father, by the action of the Son, has sent the Advocate, the Spirit, to us for this very situation! We can think of St. John's Gospel when the Risen Lord breathed on the Apostles and said "Receive the Holy Spirit. Whose sins you forgive are forgiven them" (John 20:22-23).

From the very start of the Church, we've believed in the power of the Sacrament of Reconciliation. Like everything, our understanding and use of the Sacrament of Reconciliation has developed over the centuries. We no longer have to public confess our sins to all the members of the town or make public penances (thanks be to God!), but we've lost the sense of community in the Sacrament of Penance. What affects one of us affects all of us. As the Apostle says in his letter to the Corinthians we are one body in Christ with many parts. "If one part suffers, all the parts suffer with it; if one part is honored, all the parts share its joy" (1 Corinthians 12:26). Each time we sin, we not only weaken our relationship with the Father, we also weaken our relationships with one another.

That's what is so beautiful about the Sacrament of Reconciliation. It not only reconciles us with God, but it also reconciles us with those around us. Each time we hear the words "I absolve you from your sins" it isn't the priest absolving us. Rather it is God. It is the Father who watched His Son journey to the Cross. It is the Son who freely took upon His shoulders the guilt of us all and who was Crucified and who rose on the third day to defeat death. And it is the Holy Spirit who guides the Church and who safeguards Her until the end of time.

Having been reconciled with God, we are forgiven! But we are still given some small penance to fulfill in order to "right the ship." In the same way that we may ask a friend or coworker to take certain steps in the future to prevent the same mistake, the Church asks us to say certain prayers or perform certain actions to help safeguard us from the same sins in the future. A friend or coworker taking certain steps in the future doesn't change the fact they have already been forgiven. The same goes with penances. Forgiveness isn't dangled above us waiting for us to make our penance. It's already been given and we are just responding to that forgiveness by building better habits for the future.

The hope is that the penances we receive will help us going forward in our relationship with God and will help us repair the relationships with have one another. If we struggle with anger on the road, the hope is through the forgiveness and penance we offer, we can approach the next moment of potential anger with a new perspective.

This week, let us examine our spiritual lives and see how spiritually hungry we are. If our souls are hungry, it could be a sign that we need to be fed by the Sacrament of Reconciliation.  Here is a great refresher  on how the Sacrament of Reconciliation goes.

Totus Tuus!

Corpus Christi-St. Bernard's Communications Team

 

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